My American Dream

   
One of my old braces. And yes, it was as uncomfortable as it looks.
     It was fascinating to read so many drastically interpretations of the American Dream. All the different responses go to show how broad the meaning is; the American Dream might be to give back to other people through charity, providing their children with a better life than they had as children, even if it means to simply buy a house, or by working to ensure that citizens have access to guns to protect themselves. As different as these may be, they are all possible because of the freedom and opportunity provided in America. They have a dream, and the diversity of each person's dream is representative of what the country means to people. People come here to make their dreams come true, whatever they may be, because they have the privilege to make something of their lives. The sky is the limit, and America is the platform in which they can build their dream.
     These people all have very high aspirations- goals aimed at improving the lives of others, of their children, of family members... so what was mine?
     Mine is something a bit more personal. In 4th grade, I was diagnosed with scoliosis, the curvature of the spine. I had a 43 degree curve of the spine, forcing me to wear a brace 20 hours a day, for 7 years. That meant wearing it in class, on the playground, and to bed. I was called "brace boy", constantly made fun of, and couldn't do some of the things that other kids were able to. A few years later, the spine started rotating. And just a few years later, I fractured 2 vertebra playing basketball, forcing me to quit the sport I loved. So I had a bad break... no pun intended. I went to half a dozen specialists to see what they could do, with little success. Unfortunately, I was forced to accept that my basketball career was over.
     Along with the scoliosis, I have a dilated aorta, which grew to the point that the doctor said I couldn't play any high-cardio sports anymore. So with these health problems, my choices for physical activity were quite limited. Therefore, I decided to take up volleyball.
     I played for 2 years, and with those 2 years, came 2 sprained ankles, forcing me to be on crutches for months each time. Because I also tore ligaments, the doctor suggested that I avoid sports that require a lot of jumping (understandably so). Then, I took up surfing, and... I still haven't gotten hurt. I absolutely love it. While it was not my first love, as an 18 year-old guy who loves to be active, this is the next best thing. I am outside, in the sun, watching myself slowly but surely improve.
     Yes, these setbacks were life-changing, soul-crushing. But look at all the opportunities they opened up for me. I had options to play other sports, to go to other specialists. These injuries weren't the end of the road for me. My American Dream is to turn pain into power, to never give up. As an American, there is no end of the road, unless you choose to end it. There are an infinite amount of opportunities out there, so many roads available, and while your situation in life might not be ideal, you have the opportunity to keep fighting. America is a respected country for a reason, and the amount of resources available for its citizens is astounding.
     I know I was very fortunate to have all these opportunities, and I also know that not everyone is as lucky as me. I truly yearn for a world in which everyone has equal access to help, to have as many options as possible to improve their lives, just as I did. I am beyond grateful for what I was able to have.
    My story isn't as dramatic and heart-wrenching as most, but, like all the others, the liberty gifted to me as an American citizen bestows upon me the ability to improve my situation.

Comments

  1. Thanks for sharing the story behind your dream to turn pain into power and never give up. It does seem that our struggles shape our dream more than our successes.

    I wonder if this observation is universal, true for everyone, or just for some people.

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    1. Seriously. You must have a lot of braces, Alex.

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  2. I was a big student athlete in high school, and I can't imagine what it must've felt like for both your basketball volleyball career to have been cut short and not have the ending you envisioned. I know as a competitor there is no better feeling than being able to play and excel at the sport you have a fiery passion for and I can't imagine trying to fill its void with something else. Another part of your blog that really resonated with me was how your experiences of hitting rock bottom never caused you to give up on yourself. I too believe in never giving up when times get rough and that although we may never understand why things happen the way they do, we can always count on the fact that whenever there’s an uphill a downhill is soon to follow.

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  3. Wow, I found your story very inspiring. It's amazing you didn't let any of these obstacles prevent you from staying active and you continued to search for a passion which you found in surfing. Being a dancer, I know of many cases where a dancer got injured and they gave up their dream and never looked for an alternative or compromise. Its not our struggles that define us but what we do about those struggles.

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  4. I stopped playing soccer my senior year of high school because I didn't have enough time, but now that I've read your story and how even when you were at rock bottom you found a way to keep playing sports I feel like my excuse wasn't really an excuse to stop playing the sport I loved. I can't believe you went through all that it must have been really tough, but that just shows how strong and motivated as a person you are. I might just start playing soccer again. Thanks for sharing your story.

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  5. I like how you changed your setbacks into positives. I agree with the fact that people can make the best out of any of the cards dealt to them and not just follow the path life seems to give people.

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